משלי יז:יג
מֵשִׁיב רָעָה תַּחַת טוֹבָה, לֹא תָמיּשׁ [תָמוּשׁ] רָעָה מִבֵּיתוֹ:
Mishlei 17:13 – Mishleic Karma
If one repays good with bad, badness will not depart from his house.
For whatever reason, people have a latent expectation that good should be repaid with good; for this reason, the person who repays good with bad is universally abhorred. Such an individual is exceedingly egotistical: he believes that he is entitled to be the recipient of good from others, but at the same time, feels that he doesn’t owe them anything; not only that, but he feels free to treat them however he pleases, as though they are nothing but objects in his possession. As a direct consequence of this insensitive, egotistical way of relating to others, such an individual will be continually plagued by badness in four ways:
- People will hate him and resent him.
- They will not be willing to do good for him, since they know their goodness will be repaid with badness.
- His egotistical sense of entitlement will cause him to be remiss in his responsibilities towards the members of the systems of which he is a part; this will harm the system as a whole, and he – as a part of that system – will suffer as a consequence.
- His egotism will generate excessive and unrealistic expectations of how others should relate to him, and these unfulfilled expectations will breed perpetual dissatisfaction, conflict, and distress.
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